Why Being a Socialite Leads to Better Wages for all of Us

I bumped into a friend of mine the other day. She’s one of the brave ones (certainly much braver than I am), in the sense that she ditched a fairly well-paying job to start her own company. She’s doing pretty well in her chosen industry, at least going by her accoutrements and the word on the street. Or at least I think she’s doing pretty well, and the reasons for my lack of certainty will become evident in a few minutes.

In the course of our conversation, she told me that she had had to make a strategic acquisition. She (and her partners) had bought a company which helped to fill in some strategic gaps, and this year would be one in which they could offer a full-spectrum service in their industry. I wanted to know the price of the acquisition, and this was the beginning of a good-natured tug-of-war, in which she refused to satisfy my curiosity, and I doggedly kept at it.

Her reticence is par for the course for Kenyans. I have never met a group of people, anywhere in the world, which is so reluctant to speak about money. Even the British, for whom it is supposedly bad form to engage in conversations about finances, have gotten over their reserve. The people who invented the phrase ‘if you need to ask, you cannot afford it’, got over their bashfulness when their housing bubble started a decade and a half ago. After that, it was common to hear Brits speak about the cost of houses, and thence to conversations about salaries and net worth and the like.

In Kenya, we are still stuck at the point where there is no polite way to ask (or answer) how much one makes, or how much one’s home is worth, or whether one’s business is profitable or not (journalists are excepted from the politeness rule, even when speaking to their friends).

There are certain self-created exemptions to this rule, as last Friday’s Business Daily showed. There is a certain group of young people who are not only comfortable speaking about money, but who almost seem to wear these conversations as badges of honour. While some consider talk of weekend expenses crass, showing up a need to impress, this group of young people engages in it with gusto. Even then, though, it is done very carefully. The group of parvenus may tell you how much they will spend in a nightclub (and inflate the figures as the need arises), but they will very rarely tell you how much they are making in their businesses, legitimate and otherwise.

Of course, there is a good reason for this. In years past (certainly, when I was growing up), one was actively discouraged from speaking about money. It was considered not just gauche, but also insensitive, because of the social structure of African society – the well-off person was probably educated through the efforts of the whole village, so public discussions of wealth and income were frowned upon. There were other, less exalted reasons – the reasoning went that if you discussed your money too openly, you were simply inviting thieves (or the evil eye).

This reasoning extended to businesses. It was almost impossible to know the financial health of a business – anything from the corner duka to a private conglomerate. It is only publicly listed companies, which are legally obligated to share their financial books with everyone, which gave one an inkling as to how companies were doing.

The modesty Kenyans have about discussing money is not just a matter of taste. It actually has an impact on the real world. Any listings of the wealthy are almost, by definition, inaccurate. They leave too many names out, and get the net worth of those they do list awfully wrong. What we’re left with is lists that fluctuate wildly from year to year, and fortunes made and lost at an alarming pace, if these numbers were to be believed.

The greatest impact, though, is personal. Remember when you sat for your job interview and got to the part about expected salary? Salary scales in the Kenyan job market are so opaque that employers hold all the cards. Even the more meticulous jobseekers, who do their due diligence before turning up for the interview, invariably ask someone who works at the target company. This person would also hesitate to discuss the expected salary, as this would be revealing what they themselves make. This has led to extreme wage disparities within organisations, and the inevitable bitter recriminations when these disparities are made public.

It’s almost like a blind auction, where you put in a sealed bid. The only difference is that this time you hope your bid is the highest, because you’re the winner if it is.

Chances of this state of affairs changing are low. If the change does come, it will do so at glacial pace, given the cultural and economic baggage discussions over money carry.


Or maybe the socialites are the beginning of a good trend. Maybe their willingness to speak about their expensive, booze-filled weekends will lead to all of us being paid better.

Also published in the Business Daily on 20 January at http://www.businessdailyafrica.com/Opinion-and-Analysis/flaunting-of-cash-may-lead-to-better-pay/-/539548/2594910/-/hl2b4iz/-/index.html

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